Posted by TexasChic on March 18, 2004, at 11:01:51
In reply to Please Help, I need advice, I am very down, ******, posted by Stryker88 on March 15, 2004, at 2:40:19
Dude, I hear you. Sometime it seems impossible to find someone. The only consolation I have is that alot of people settle because they're afraid of being alone. So I know I'm one of the people who is not willing to do that, even though its hard. It sure is taking a long time for it to pay off though! :-)
In my opinion, which of course you can take it or leave it, is that the married chic is a bad idea. Not only could she have some huge killer husband, but there is the possibility of her calling it sexual harassment. They are really coming down on that stuff, so be careful.
Also, you might ask yourself if she is really all that or if it just seems that way because you can't have her. Its alot safer to want someone you can't have, because you are free of responsibility. I know I've done that alot in the past. That might not be your situation, but I thought I would just throw it in.
Hang in there!
poster:TexasChic
thread:324490
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20040316/msgs/325635.html