Posted by inthegloaming on March 13, 2004, at 1:37:03
In reply to Re: Fluoxetine and Alcohol, posted by deirdrehbrt on February 28, 2004, at 20:46:10
> The way you describe your condition, you weren't in a position to say no, or yes with any real idea of the outcome.a lot of people i know say that this doesn't matter, that we were both at fault. there were some things i did kinda say no to, like i pushed her away but they were things that kinda broke through my fog.
i still don't know what to do. i'm really angry and hurt by it and it's hard to get my point across because so many people don't think it's a big deal. what i hate so much is that she did all this stuff even though she knew how i feel about sexual advances and that i don't like her like that to begin with. she's really really sorry but i'm still so upset...so... i don't know. so something. so angry that we live in a world where people can do that... where when someone is flat on their back mumbling about being in 'the black place' and that they're not 'there' that means they're fair game... and that just because someone is unresponsive means that the other person can keep going... it just makes me sick inside.
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> It doesn't matter why a person is incapacitated, whether it's from drinking, drugs, illness, whatever. The point is that you shouldn't have been taken advantage of.
> People might say that the person who committed the assault was drunk too, so the fault should be shared. That argument won't hold water with a court.really? i've heard that, but... it makes sense and it doesn't make sense.
i don't know, i'm really confused. ugh. but thanks for all your help--i really appreciate it.g.
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