Posted by octopusprime on November 26, 2003, at 22:42:46
In reply to WHO IS FOR REAL, posted by blink23 on November 26, 2003, at 16:06:06
blink23:
just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. i'm 24 and i moved to a new place a little more than two years ago. it's hard to make new friends once school is over.
fallsfall and ms. honeychurch are right about the activites. it's hard to motivate yourself to do them when you can default to hanging out with your SO. however, if it's really important to you, you'll make the choice.
one way to make yourself go out more is to disconnect the cable. use the $$ you would spend on cable on other activities. even something as simple as frequenting a coffee shop, library, or swimming pool on a regular basis will get your face out in public and help you meet people.
good luck. unfortunately there are no instant answers here (wish i had them!) :-/ just takes time and perseverance.
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