Posted by kara lynne on September 29, 2003, at 15:13:53
In reply to I HURT I HURT I HURT I HURT, posted by KimberlyDi on September 29, 2003, at 9:25:58
Kim Di,
I had no idea you were going through such a tough time. A huge cheer for your taking action on the side of yourself and your life--and your two sweet pomeranians. I know this is the hardest part but you have done it. You have taken the most difficult step, and now you will find support for it--as I did.Can you have a friend check on the puppies while you're at work? Call on everyone you can right now, for physical and emotional support-- it's essential that you have it. You sound like a great person and a good friend and I'm sure people would be happy to help you. I know it's so much harder to function when you're tired and drained from all of this. Try to rest when you can and get a few minutes to center and breathe.
Take it one minute at a time. If your husband sees that you won't tolerate his behavior maybe it will be the impetus for him to change. And if he doesn't it is the chance for you to have a new life, without the tyranny of his anger. It's probably hard to hear this from me because I've had such a tenuous hold on a similar situation, but hearing your story gives me strength as well.
I'll be sending love and good thoughts your way.
Kara
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