Posted by Greg on July 10, 2003, at 12:58:37
In reply to Re: Landlady - again - more...., posted by kalyb on July 10, 2003, at 12:06:27
Kaly,
I understand how you feel, I really do. And I can tell in your words how very, very hard this is on you. But at some point in time you have to take a stand with her or her behavior is going to continue. You are her tennent, not her personal slave. I still think that you make the offer to have her write down the instructions for you, agree on a firm time when you will return, and let that be good enough. Why should your happiness be sacrificed? All she is doing is badgering you into getting her way. It sounds like you've had enough of that in your life.
This isn't about what the landlady or your guyfriend thinks, it's about what you think and what's best for your personal growth.
As usual, sticking my nose in where it probably doesn't belong.
Greg
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