Posted by Kar on May 6, 2003, at 23:00:41
In reply to Snowbunny's magical powers-Coral/Shar, posted by whiterabbit on May 5, 2003, at 16:56:44
Gracie-
I've been following your posts and am happy that you're doing better.>How can you love anyone that looks you in the eye and lies, and lies and lies.
Oh so easily! You deserve a sh**load more credit than you are giving yourself. Really, I think about myself a few years ago and how incredibly long it took me to get past it all...well completely different situations, of course. But my point is that you brush off your strides by attributing them to merely "natural" reactions...what you SHOULD feel right now after such a hurricane. It doesn't usually work that way. It usually takes a while to get just to the point where you are. I remember my sister saying to me, "Think about how long you were together (5 and 1/2 years: see? different situations- and we weren't married either)...you can't expect to get over something like this or to stop loving him right away."...well I really didn't. I mean REALLY. I was talking to him, still spending some time with him (self-initiated).I was fully aware that what he'd done to me was dispicable...all those years...everything I'd done for him, blah blah blah. You see, though, that doesn't always register right away. i couldn't stop the way I felt even in light of the circumstances. So high five to you.
I'm sure it will continue for a while- harder sometimes than others, but damn you should be proud. Really.> He looked very pale and tired and a little frightened.
The symbolism of the tables turning is blatantly smacking you on the head! Wow. It IS like a soap opera!>there's a young lady here to see you.
Excuse me while I remove my stomach from my big toe. Whew!! Can't imagine what I'd have done...fun to envision tho.>deserved a chance to be happy
Boggles the mind.> I guess those voodoo dolls DO work.
Walmart?Hang in there,
karen
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