Posted by lil' jimi on April 11, 2003, at 9:33:15
In reply to Re: Kristen is in a coma » lil' jimi, posted by RichardN on April 11, 2003, at 1:00:37
> What is this?
>kristen,
>
> i believe i have consistently taken you seriously ... when have i Not taken you
> seriously?
>
> well, okay, i don't really get into taking myself seriously ... or at the least
> i Try to Not take myself Too seriously ... i just don't do serious for me all
> That well ... still i find your distress to be very serious for me ... and a
> lot of other people ... like our breadedlady and ayuda and justyourlaugh, to
> name a few ... they love you ... and i take their concern for you
> seriously ... specifically, i can not imagine anyone feeling anything but
> sincere concern for you ... and a deep sense of helplessness because we can't
> be there to help you ... but i very much doubt that anyone's amused by your
> suffering ... all of these good folks would dearly want you to talk to us and
> tell us what are these issues which have you so upset and how is it that they
> can make you feel so out of sorts ... we want you to talk to us ... so we might
> be able to help you calm down ... believe me, we Are on your side ... let us
> help you ... Please?
>
> can you get calmed down and isolate what it is that has enraged you ... has it
> been something i wrote ... somebody else wrote ?
>
> Whatever it is, would you please talk to us about it? ... anyone of us ... e-
> mail us all ... post it to one of the boards ... IM? ... i just ask that you
> give us a chance to show that we do really care about you and want to help you.
>
> starting celexa (i read your PB post about this) is bound to bring on
> neurotransmitter instabilities which are going to cause SEs ... this can make
> you feel miserable ... at least for the first couple of weeks or so ... try to
> do good things for yourself ... you are a kind person and you deserve to take
> good care of your self ... just like we all have to try to take care of
> ourselves ... you have been very consistently kind to other posters (strangers)
> at Pb ... be just as kind to yourself ... no one here wants you to suffer.
>
> Please, Please, get some local support so there can be someone (a professional)
> there who will give the up-close-and-personal care when you need it.
>
> i care ... we care ... please take care of yourself ...
> and let us hear from you, Okay?
>
> ~ jim
> > > Hello,
> > > Just wanted to let you all know that our daughter is in a coma. We found a note that led us here, and my wife had posted here years back.
> > > Please keep her in your prayers.
> > > God Bless and sincerely,
> > > Rich
> > >
> > > *we have full control over her email account
> >
> > Hello RichardN,
> >
> > As a friend to Kristen I am one among a great number who continue to be concerned for her and have been concerned for her for a while now. And as a parent I feel for your family and their suffering for your daughter’s plight. I can only begin to imagine how you must feel. Our son, our only child, is four and we are blessed that he is safe and well. Comparatively, your position is just ... devastation. We (many of us who have tried to offer Kristen our support) pray for her and you and your loved ones and if we could, we will want to offer our support to you in this dark hour. You have my sympathies, while we pray for and continue to hope for the best.
> >
> > Could you offer us any update about her condition. We worry and any information you could offer us here would be a real blessing. A lot of us are not all that strong for the crises that Kristen has had to suffer and it would mean a great deal if we could know more.
> >
> > As you may have read from the other posts here, there are those who have concerns about the accuracy, or even the authenticity, of your report. Since you now have control of her e-mail account (and therefore I will presume you will eventually read this), I want to ask you, again, if you could offer any more information about her prognosis, or anything that could give us some validation of the current events affecting Kristen.
> >
> > I (we) worry. This is not hard to imagine. When you are up to it, any details about Kristen’s situation will be very much appreciated here. God Bless you.
> >
> > Take care,
> > ~ jim
> >>
> ENOUGH IS ENOUGH BELIEVE WHAT YOU WILL,
> I cannot believe this.
> goodnight and best wishes to you all.dear RichardN,
i have only offered support and my personal compassion to you and your family in your time of suffering ... i never meant to aggravate the painfulness of your ongoing tragedy ... i apologize if what i have writted has offended you ... that was and is the furtherest thing from my intentions.
i can, with great confidence i feel, promise you that no one here has ever meant your daughter any harm ... indeed, every poster has offered support and encouragement to keep her from harm , while many of have been very worried about our inability to do anything to keep her from harm ... i am sorry that our good intentions proved, as we feared, inadequate to protect her from peril.
i pray for kristen's recovery and for your and your family's well-being ... may you all be free from suffering soon.
~ jim
P.S. if you have a specific question about the e-mail messages i have exchanged with your daughter i will be more than willing to reply ... i intended that they could speak for themselves ... the one you've posted above still seems as clear to me as when i sent it to Kristen ... i am sorry if it has managed to compound your confusion.
poster:lil' jimi
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