Posted by syringachalet on January 11, 2003, at 23:57:02
In reply to Re: Disillusioned, posted by Dr. Bob on January 11, 2003, at 4:13:03
I dont know about others but when Im really hurting inititally I need to be alone....
I need to be able to feel through whatever
is within me and not have it hurt or anger
anyone else.I have sometimes said things during that
initital period that could negatively impact others who are also vulnerable.Also once that initital period has passed,
I need time to process through about what has happened.
To see how it happened..not blaming or judgemental.. and see what I can..if anything.. for it not to happen again.For me it helps me to feel I am actively
doing something about my problem or situation.. empowerment the big boys call it.. and it
is that tiny piece of control I can regain
that helps me feel just enough better about myself and my situation and I can pull myself back up and go again...just differently.
..Lifes a dance you learn as you go;
sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow.
Dont worry about what you dont know...
Lifes a dance you learn as you go..country radio PTSD 309.81...
syringachalet
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