Posted by ShelliR on December 4, 2002, at 0:15:44
Hey Gabs,
This is something you said on the administration board:
< I don't think (if it was a concern anyway)
< Knowing him I could ever feel someone was < 'two faced" if he was welcomed back as
< warmly as IAre you are saying that you would be fine if the same people who are supporting you, also support Scott when he comes back?
It's a little unclear. I only bring it up because I am somewhat uneasy that he is not here also, to test out his support. And although he created that situation for himself, it is still awkward.
I don't need to know what happened between you and Scott. But at this point I'm assuming that Scott's post was NOT a total and complete lie. I am reading that into *your* post: that somewhere your truth and his truth *do* overlap, and it is not as clear as Gabby is "innocent" of all Scott's accusations and Scott is "guilty" of making up all lies, that in no way are related to anything that happened between the two of you.
I don't know if you feel comfortable confirming or denying my assumptions. I think if my assumptions *are* true, then it would be easier to also offer Scott support when he returns to the board. Support maybe for being hurt, because that is often where the seeds for such anger and exaggeration begin.
I realize that this post is not very clear, but I am trying to prepare for Scott's return without reopening the entire wound.
On the other hand, if this reopens it too much for you, I'll totally understand a pass as a response.
Shelli
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thread:32952
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