Posted by Dinah on August 4, 2002, at 23:03:30
In reply to Re: .advice , posted by Ctrlaltndel : | on August 4, 2002, at 22:38:52
Dreamer, is that really true?
A sane member of the family who looks like you and you say you feel nothing for him and want nothing but a free holiday? And when you have no other family that you are in contact with? I suspect you're motives are not as selfish as you would like to think.
There is nothing at all wrong with wanting to connect with someone who is after all your brother. I know I would want to, in the same situation. And wanting to impress him is also perfectly normal.
Without knowing your specifics, (and probably even if I did know them), I have no way of giving you any sort of advice about whether or not to contact him.
So now I have two pieces of advice, neither directly to the point. Guard your heart, and don't feel guilty for wanting something else.
Dinah
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