Posted by fi on May 31, 2002, at 8:24:52
In reply to hurting too much, posted by fiona on May 30, 2002, at 21:01:32
Please, please look after yourself! Your family is being unfair in expecting you to look after your sister, let alone her kids too!
I suspect most of us find it a slow process getting better, generally improving but with some ups and downs. In my case, extra stress could definitely cause a 'down'. You need to put yourself and your health first- *its absolutely essential*, and has nothing to do with being selfish or petty.
I bet if you check with your own pdoc they would agree with me!
Your sister and her kids may well need help, but if she is not seeking it directly, someone else in the family (eg your mother, *not* you) can contact her doctor or whatever professional is in charge of her care to let them know there's a problem. Its up to them to ensure that whatever care your sister and her kids need is available.
Fi
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