Posted by sid on March 18, 2002, at 19:24:30
In reply to Re: reluctant to call PDOC » KB, posted by IsoM on March 18, 2002, at 19:16:12
IsoM, Could it be some level of co-dependence? Co-dependents live for others before themselves, take care of others, etc... And they tend to neglect themselves. They become lazy or careless when it's about them, but they'd give their lives for someone else.
I'm a co-dependent myself , so I recognize the pattern. I've learned to force myself to do things that are good for me as if it's a task in my job. It's a chore like any other; I write it down on my to-do list. I don't always do it as I should, but I certainly try.
In Zo's case, it sounds more like nervousness related with meeting her pdoc.
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