Posted by Fi on March 16, 2002, at 12:51:01
In reply to can't see the wood for the trees, posted by ELA on March 14, 2002, at 14:32:26
Congrats on making things up with your friend- very valuable.
You dont need to make *big* decisions yet for your future, or in a hurry. Give yourself time. I remember someone telling me how when he was depressed he would stand for ages in front of the shelves in the supermarket, for example the coffee. It wasnt that he was choosing what brand or size, but that at a basic level it was quite impossible for him to decide whether or not to buy any coffee (or anything else). I expect you are beyond that stage now, but give yourself time.
From the point of view of the present, are you giving the nanny job a shot (allowing yourself the choice of changing your mind and leaving if you need to)? I hope whatever you are doing is going well. Take care, and thanks again for the good news!
Fi
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