Posted by trouble on February 20, 2002, at 5:26:10
In reply to Yates trial, posted by bonnie_ann on February 19, 2002, at 22:23:55
Oh mannnnn, and just when I was planning to go hit the couch and grab 3 hours of sleep.
Thank you for sharing what's inside your heart, both the acceptable and the non-acceptable.
If only Ms. Yates and countless other deranged mothers and fathers had had the opportunity to express themselves in a supportive environment...We'll neve know for sure if that is a palliative, but if desperate people do desperate things common sense tells me we better deal w/ it, but that's what friends are for and she was utterly friendless, wasn't she?Her husband, the little I've read about him makes me want to break both his arms and feed them to a junkyard dog. See how ugly my inner life can be? I once had a therapist who commanded me to go home and conjure up "ax-wielding fantasies" about my rivals and it really hits the spot. Has it made me less threatening in real life? All I know for sure is I'm not considered the loose cannon I one was.
The sad thing about Susan Smith, Ms. Yates and homocidal moms in general seems to be the hell they'd bring down upon their heads if they were to come clean about what most mothers (and infants)imagine they'd like to do to their parasites. Babies are parasites, literally in utero, parasites feeding off the host mother. A little understanding would go a long way toward easing what has got to be normal female resentment.
Going back many years to a Phil Donahue show, there was a new mother on who, while breast-feeding her newborn experienced sexual stimulation. Ok I don't even have kids or anything but I do have nipples and I instinctively knew what she felt was normal. plus I went to the library and all these books (Our Bodies Ourselves type books) said it was normal to feel amorous while brstfdng.
So this poor lady calls a crises line and reports her experience, looking for commonality and reassurance and they arrested her and took her baby away.
So, I don't know what happens to women when they become moms, but the cult of motherhood has a lot to answer for when she goes off the rails.Yates psychiatrists? I can't wait to hear their excuse.
Take care, trouble
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