Posted by Tabitha on May 9, 2016, at 13:34:25
In reply to Re: deep feeling emotion (events, memories) » Tabitha, posted by rjlockhart37 on April 28, 2016, at 12:06:32
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> or ill think about longed for things like having alot of friends, being very socially active,I can really relate. I used to long for that more than anything. I guess I still do, but I've been trying to accept that my personality just doesn't work for that. The best I can do is incremental improvements. Like mostly fitting in instead of standing out as "unique". But that's not the same as making friends.
> i can be social but my abilities are limited, i can't come into a room and immidiately dive into talking with people, and if i do i'm not good at it and people move way, im like the social dork, greeting people, but saying indirectly off topic dorky things......saying something really dumb on impluse
Ha ha, yeah me too. I also make dork moves on social media. I have to resist and ask myself "would I say this in person? Do I even know this person well enough to talk to them?"
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> but just like the past, sometimes feels like people who are gone, somehow are still existing in someone's memories, the time frame of how you knew them and remembered them, that's how they stay i guess
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>Yes, that's a good way to think that people made an impact. Eventually most of us will be forgotten though. It's hard to accept. But I figure I'll be dead, so I won't be around to be sad that I'm forgotten.
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