Posted by Dinah on July 8, 2013, at 11:49:16
In reply to Re: Trying to keep a promise.... » Dinah, posted by Twinleaf on July 8, 2013, at 10:02:48
I remember that even though I understood why he had moved, and even though I did have some compassion for that, it was usually drowned out by my rage at his abandonment.
I think... I think I am better shielded against his abandonment now. And I finally do have the sense that I *am* a "Jessica" to him. But I hope I don't have to put it to the test.
Yet, I know it's likely. Even if I am the one to leave, some feelings of abandonment will be there.
Poor guy. (My therapist, not yours.)
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