Posted by sleepygirl2 on January 27, 2012, at 12:05:46
In reply to Re: I think I have to stop seeing my pdoc » sleepygirl2, posted by Dinah on January 27, 2012, at 5:19:25
Well, I was heading to my appointment, and I was running late. I thought that maybe I should just call, and say I couldn't make it. But I trudged on as quick as I could and got there about 6 minutes late for my 15 minute appointment. I'd otherwise have an appointment over the phone which is less helpful.
I open the door to his office, and a young woman was walking right out, so I thought. "oh, she just finished her appointment. I'm late, but he was still working."
The door to his inner office was open, but I'm not in the habit of just walking into people's offices, so I knocked lightly. Pdoc appeared, I said "I should come in? Yes?". He says nothing. I say "no?", and then realize I should just walk in.He tells me that was acting out. That it has been discussed before that when his door is open, that I should come in.
I said that I thought the girl before had just left (I didn't think he was waiting for me), and I didn't usually walk into people's offices without an invitation. He asked me with annoyance if he wasnt supposed to be allowed to sit at his desk, but had to wait for me??he was telling me that I was acting out my anger, being obstinate, unreasonable.
and he shouldn't be someone I'm angry at.
I didn't really see any opportunity for helpful discussion on my part, so I shut my mouth.
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