Posted by Anemone on January 8, 2012, at 20:39:20
In reply to Re: Ideal Client, Ideal Therapist (inspired by Dinah) » Anemone, posted by Dinah on January 7, 2012, at 13:14:05
Hi Dinah,
I know you don't admire your T as much as I do mine, but I think he is cool in his own way. Wow, he had a goatee? I see you don't like it much.
About authentic vs ideal conundrum: I think each client can be ideal in her own way. I focus on being authentic and hope to create a new kind of ideal for my T. Not the kind of ideal as defined as that yucky article.
Just like food: we can't say only muffins are ideal, because pancakes are great too. So, maybe there is no one ideal, our Ts can discover that each of us is wonderful in our own ways?
not sure if the above makes any sense...
I don't mind my T keeping the fan magazine, I hope she can use it for when she needs a laugh. I guess on this website no one else admires his/her T this much? I feel like a weirdo here.
Anemone
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