Posted by Solstice on September 30, 2011, at 14:12:38
In reply to shutting my T out, posted by pegasus on September 30, 2011, at 9:29:18
Wow, Peg.. I think it`s amazing that your more mature self can so accurately observe that wounded 14 y/o from the sidelines! You`re actually working it out! Kudos to your therapist for taking care in managing his side of the dance. I think you are right on point when you say that you are somehow protecting yourself. Maybe you should send what you wrote here to your T? My T always says that *I* am the one that has to lead the therapy... because I will instinctively know when it`s too much too soon, or whatever. I think what you did is great! It`s telling you something important about what you need (or don`t need :-)... and it`s your therapist`s job to help you figure it out.
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