Posted by lucielu2 on August 7, 2011, at 17:30:47
In reply to Re: Finally trusting the relationship, and then this - » annierose, posted by Dinah on August 7, 2011, at 13:53:26
It sounds like she screwed up. I agree that it seems very unlikely that she would give up your appt on purpose.
Is there any chance she could rearrange any of her other appts so you could make a Tuesday morning? My T has done that before, not often, but he has. He has also called me on a few occasions and asked if another (specific) time would be as convenient, without pressuring me at all, and I've always agreed. Because I know that he has done the same for me at times, and we have done this for each other because we both have some flexibility. But that wouldn't work for everyone.
Be that as it may, I can understand your being very angry with her. She let you down. It is always worse when you are in a particularly trusting place to be disappointed by someone you care about.
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