Posted by Dinah on March 23, 2011, at 7:02:00
In reply to Re: So sorry » Dinah, posted by annierose on March 22, 2011, at 8:42:13
Yes, this is more what he should have done to begin with, if he said anything at all.
I may feel differently down the line, if I don't emotionally divorce him (as I'm very prone to do). But for right now, the idea of going is aversive to me.
The situation hasn't changed from the unacceptable it was before. And it's not like he actually unsaid what he said before. He just said it much better. Sometimes therapy would benefit from asynchronous communication, I think.
Thanks, Annierose.
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