Posted by Dinah on July 2, 2010, at 8:01:04
In reply to Re: 'You're Harmful!' » Dinah, posted by Verloren on July 2, 2010, at 5:55:39
I *do* understand. I always feel the same way about the boundary discussions. They sort of make me feel bad. Like my therapist needs to protect himself from me. But I think maybe she was trying more to protect you from expecting more than she could give.
Therapists sometimes need to say things even if they realize you are aware of the boundaries in your brain I think. Because I think there's a difference between our brains and our hearts. Even after all this time, I get a little start of surprise and hurt sometimes.
I hope you two figure out a way for this to cause you less pain.
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