T gives me ultimatum

Posted by rnny on January 18, 2010, at 15:05:56

The T I am seeing right told me today that she is going to expect me not to use "name calling" during our sessions as one of her expections in seeing me. I told her I have never called her names, only once said, "for someone with a PhD you sound stupid". She acknowledged it was only once and I said, "do you want a phony to come in here. sometimes i call people names". she then went on to explain that she wanted to use the sessions as a way of me to "learn" not to use name calling when I am angry but to say the words instead "I am very angry". I don't know why I am posting this but was very embarrased since I have never made it a habit of calling her names! I am shocked she would take one stupid little example of me using the word stupid and making a policy of it! I told her I consider her very sensitive if this has been festering and I don't think she expected to hear that either.

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