Posted by Helana on December 11, 2009, at 9:50:04
In reply to erotic transference, posted by deerock on December 11, 2009, at 9:18:09
Hi deerock.
I've read some of your other post to get a better idea and you sound just like me with my therapist or at least how it was for the first two years.We are still working through the erotic transference and countertransference in a healthy way and I am so blessed to have her in my life althoough it's not the way I always thought I wanted it. I thought the only way I ever wanted her was completely, but that's not true anymore. I didn't know that until we started working through the transference which wasn't until this past year because like your t mine flirted back and crossed bounderies. That is when I usually felt the rage...and had the violent fantasies. This fantasy that I had mentioned in a previous post was because she had flirted again in therapy which she hasn't done in roughly six months.
Just thought I'd share.
Peace and love,
Helana
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