Posted by Lauren0722 on October 29, 2009, at 8:11:43
In reply to Re: If You Have Personal/Romantic Feelings for your T. » Lauren0722, posted by BayLeaf on October 28, 2009, at 20:15:50
It is so transparent how you are I feel bad for you - you miss the point entirely of the entire post I put out there.
There are judgements and nay-sayers and I have rec'd private emails to your replies to this thread agreeing with me.
I don't want to make enemies here - I simply am seeking stories as a way to help myself and others in a journey while in therapy that can lead you down a path full of love, be it right or wrong.
When people fixate on just one or two or a few words and overlook the entire meaning of something being imparted, there is a shallowness in that, a fear maybe - look beyond those words and see that you are essentially poo pooing someone trying to help others by breaking a taboo subject, bringing it to light and actually talking about it in honest terms.
If you were offended and apparently so easy to come after someone for a few words out of many words posted, I apologize and I hope you will take a breath and see that the intention my co-author and I have are only in the best interest of those who are in the same boat we are in.
Best of luck to you.
Lauren
> Huh? tearing you down? cutting? rude?
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> I invited sassy to stay and post here, and saying that there are plenty of people right here who have been in similar shoes who could understand, and share with her. We talk about the pain of erotic transference constantly on this forum. Just read the archives. How is that tearing you down??
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> I hope you both find support and healing, where ever that can be found.
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> bay
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