Posted by Nadezda on September 23, 2009, at 15:23:54
In reply to keeping ones word, posted by deerock on September 20, 2009, at 21:21:07
Deerock, what you did to resolve the issue.? Maybe you left out the steps you and she took, but talking about a small in itself won't make it better. Did you and she try to figure out what she was cooking that bothered you? Was she willing to cook other things if there was one thing? If the smell still bothered you, maybe you didn't figure out what the cause was and could have tried further to eliminate it.
A smell can be disturbing, but I would hope you gave her some warning that the issue hadn't been resolved before just saying that she had to move. Also you might want to set up some expectations, because I think I would be quite upset at having that sort of sudden need to move again right after I moved into an apartment. If I knew before moving in that you're sensitive to certain things, and that it might pose a problem of that sort, at least I wouldn't feel so upended if things didn't work out. ' It's great, though, that she was so accommodating and that everything seems to have worked out okay.
Nadezda
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