Posted by sunnydays on April 19, 2009, at 16:32:28
In reply to Re: disconnected session » sunnydays, posted by Dinah on April 19, 2009, at 15:56:14
I'm doing better with a little more distance from it. And I'm making coffee cake, which I hope comes out yummy :). I have lots of good memories and that's helping. I feel like this happens every spring to some extent, I'm not sure why. For some reason he seems to get more stressed in the spring, probably because it's the end of the school year and so his disorganization catches up with him a little. And while other people probably can't tell that he's different, I'm really sensitive to any small little changes in how he acts. He encourages me to tell him about it, though, and he's totally and completely fine with me being mad at him, even when I swear I'm being unreasonable and expecting way too much. He says I don't have to be reasonable, which I love (I got tears in my eyes just then thinking that - we do have a strong relationship). And he wanted me to tell him all the 'evidence' I had been collecting that he was different lately.
It's nice. I don't think I need to call him. Thanks for writing that post, it helped me settle things in my mind.
sunnydays
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