Posted by Looney Tunes on February 23, 2009, at 15:31:02
I quit my T after ~6 months because of the following reasons:
1) Disclosure of T's personal issues that really bothered me (I knew about T's parents, siblings, kids, etc.)
2) Lack of T's ability to help get me grounded or help me "come back" before kicking me out the door
Sometimes T kicked me out and I would wind up in various places (on foot); T did not care.
3) Lack of T's ability to help me figure out what I needed to calm myself down
4) T's cost
5) T constantly saying I was a difficult client
6) T never saying anything positive about me to perhaps help a little with my beyond low self-esteem.
7) T's therapy styleThis T came recommended and it did not work out. Why do I keep winding up with T's that tell me all about their lives? This is so incredibly painful to me, seeing as I have no family and no close-friends. Why do I keep winding up in this role-reversal?
Disclosing about how great families are and issues in families does not help someone who was raised in foster care. God it hurts.
I am so absolutely devestated that I can't even think about ever seeing a T again in my life.
Talk about more harm than help. My whole life has been and is a mess and I can't find someone to help me.And the worse part is that I am missing this *ssh*l* T, even though I know it is not right.
poster:Looney Tunes
thread:881951
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