Posted by antigua3 on February 13, 2009, at 8:29:52
In reply to Re: Has anyone ever felt like this? - Question, posted by SLS on February 13, 2009, at 7:12:53
I'd say it's hard to distinguish at times, but it would probably be good for your therapy if you let her know how you really feel about her. Working through these feelings with someone you are attracted to can help a lot, with the goal of feeling good enough within to go out and find a mate that possesses the qualities you admire.
By not telling her how you feel, you're keeping so much inside, so much that could be helpful to your therapy. Give up that self-discipline! It won't get in the way of therapy, it will be therapy. You will have to give up the fantasy of her, though, and that can be hard.
antigua
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