Posted by LadyBug on December 2, 2008, at 22:11:40
In reply to Intense Tranference with my T, posted by OneGoodRoad on December 2, 2008, at 19:32:04
Welcome to Babble! It's a wonderful place to hang out!
I feel that doing a search on Google for your T is pretty normal. I've done it. Years ago I told my T that I found her house on the internet when she had it listed to sell. She said, "well, it is the internet and whatever is on there is public so I can't stop anyone from searching".
Your T must have been worried that you found some "dirt" or something.
You have to decide what feels ok to you.I've been seeing my same T for over 11 years now and I've always been curious of her in many ways. I've asked questions and some of them she's answered and some she kept private just for that reason.
Honesty is the best way to be. She must understand that this stuff happens! And T's are aware that it does.
LadyBug
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