Posted by FindingMyDesire on October 10, 2008, at 13:32:12
In reply to Next Wed is my termination day with my therapist, posted by lemonaide on October 10, 2008, at 7:40:49
Hi Lemonaide,
I'm sorry to ask this. It's selfish in a way because I know if I try to go back over all the old posts to put this together I will get overwhelmed and I am really wanting to follow along with you right now. Can you please clarify your situation a little? I didn't know you were still seeing T number 2... this is the one who has helped you in some ways, but was also inappropriate (the long list of wrongful disclosures, for example). Right? You had a terrible, terrible transgression on the part of T number 1, correct? And now you have just started with T number 3 (a woman) and you have had two sessions with her. Am I on the right track? I AM SO SORRY to summarize so much - I know that can feel like it's trivializing. I really would NEVER want you to feel like that. I just want to get it clear in my mind, OK?Now, have you told your new T that you are breaking it off with T #2 (if I have it right)? Can she support you in this? When do you see her again?
I definitely agree with everyone on writing it down to be clear, but seeing him in person if possible.
Please feel no pressure or obligation (OF COURSE) to answer ANY of my questions...
And I'm not sure what kind of support you would like around your brother's death but I would like to offer something... But in any case, I'm really thinking of you.
FMD
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