Posted by lemonaide on October 8, 2008, at 9:54:39
In reply to Very awkward experience, posted by Wittgensteinz on October 8, 2008, at 8:52:59
HI Witti,
I think there is always a change when they come back from vacation, I don't know if it is us or them, but I feel it too.
As far as your T's wife, I think he needs to have her respect your privacy more. She shouldn't be around when his clients are coming and going, even if she is living there. I know this would be very uncomfortable even if I was standing at his door with roses. She needs to give his clients some space, and she isn't respecting that. I see now why T's shouldn't practice at home for this reason and many more.
I am sure the pictures of his children would be hard to see, my 1st T had them but they were hidden, the 2nd had them on display right there in the office. It was of his 40th wedding anniversary, with all the kids and grand kids in a big photo. Plus a picture with just his kids, all my age and older. There must be some issue there too, but I am sure you know that, you are one smart Witti. ;-)
Maybe you were feeling funny giving him roses because of the meaning sometimes behind them, even if it wasn't what you were thinking, the fact you saw his wife, maybe you thought she would think that, and come over and claw your eyes out! lol Just kidding, but maybe it felt like you were doing something wrong.
I guess you need to talk to him about this. But the wifey thing I would think is in the violation of your confidentiality.
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