Posted by lemonaide on October 5, 2008, at 11:33:28
In reply to Bad place, bad place (miscarriage TMI) + LONG, posted by FindingMyDesire on October 5, 2008, at 4:24:17
FindingMyDesire,
I am sorry you are in so much pain right now. You are right your hormones are going wacky, and that is enough for anyone to feel really bad.
But for you it seems to be also a trigger of abandonment by your T. I know that feel really bad too. And just because they are just our T's it doesn't mean that we don't want more. Why can't they just call to make sure we are okay, but instead we have to follow the rules for the relationship. A real friend wouldn't mind a 2am call to help a friend out.
What you are going through with your baby is huge, don't let anyone tell you different. It is going to hurt to see other people with babies, and it it is your T, I can see it being like a double whammy.
I personally don't know how you do it, it seems like so much to deal with on your own.Can you call one of your friends who you didn't want to call in the early morning, call them now? I am sure they would want to help you through this. I don't even know you but if I knew somebody was going through this, I would want to help even if just for some support and hugs. Even your OBgyn can be of some support too. You are doing the right thing by reaching out.
Be gentle with yourself, you are going through several of one of life's biggest challenges right now.
poster:lemonaide
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