Posted by Lemonaide on August 7, 2008, at 18:08:25
In reply to Re: Had my session today » Lemonaide, posted by Dinah on August 7, 2008, at 17:53:16
I keep thinking that maybe it would help to talk and vent about what my old T did, not talk about him with my current T, but still do the EMDR with him to help with my hurt feelings. But I don't know, I have been venting about it a lot lately,and I am not sure if it is helping.
One part that I am upset about, but not really at my current T, but my old T. I wanted to know what my old T said about me in their phone meeting, I said I had a right to know. Well my T said he wasn't going to tell me because he feels he has a right to protect me. Then I go, so it is that bad? He said it isn't that bad, but he thinks it would hurt me. I said what I am thinking is probably 10x worse than what he did say, but I could guess probably what he would say.
So now my old T dogged on me now. I am beginning not to like him so much now. Maybe he was right about one thing, he said if I ever got to really know him, I probably wouldn't like him. I think he may be right about that.
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