Posted by healing928 on July 31, 2008, at 14:54:33
In reply to Leaving on a bad note, posted by Suedehead on July 31, 2008, at 14:37:44
Well I had a falling out with my t, fired him, went to see someone else, but starting to see him again. He supported me all through this, but i couldn't deal with he attachment stuff and thought not having him would be better than having him a little. (He is going through some personal stuff and his schedule is very limited)
I tried to tell him about my attachment/dependence but he didn't understand the extent until i exploaded during his vacation. Even the weeks I wasn't seeing him he was available via email and phone, but vacation he was not. Anyway, from this whole experience, my advice is to be direct. I don't think t's understand the impact they have on us. It WILL be uncomfortable, but you need to be direct, so you can get everything out so you can explore coping skills for when he is not available.
Healing
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