Posted by LadyBug on July 26, 2008, at 0:08:55
In reply to Help!!!!, posted by Phillipa on July 25, 2008, at 12:32:40
Phillipa
I know how it feels as my husband would take off too. He drank, and did drugs. I could never understand how he could be so selfish and so inconsiderate of me and my kids. They are sick and don't care. It is a huge fear. I know when he took off it meant trouble.
One thing you have to remember is he's the one that is doing damage to himself. Yes, it hurts the family members a lot as well.
This is the exact reason I started to see my T 11 years ago. Because my husband started to not come home from work and the anxiety tipped me over. I finally got up the courage to leave him 11 months ago.
Your son in law will turn up. In the mean time, try to focus on you and your daughter and think of all that you have.
Let us know what you find out. I feel your pain.
Hugs
LadyBug
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