Posted by muffled on June 15, 2008, at 19:51:42
In reply to Re: also, posted by Annierose on June 15, 2008, at 18:52:38
Well, you may or may not get what you might wish for in terms of your oldT. But y'know, its good in a way that you are being able to feel and express your anger. Guess you had to stash alot of anger as a kid :-(
But anger is a powerful emotion.....truly HF I hope you can take this to your T and work thru it with him. There's proly alot of deep seated stuff inside you that is comming up with this whole incredibly triggering situation.
Eventually this will get worked thru and be OK. Maybe hard to beleive at this moment, cuz it feels so strong and hurts so much, but it can be worked thru. You got what it takes HF. I just am SO impressed how you have come thru what you did and you raising GREAT kids yourself DESPITE all :-)
You keep remembering how special you really are HF, and never mind so much that dumb oldT.
Please take good care.
I know this is a really tough one for you.
Have you phoned your T to tell him how triggered you are?
Do you have a plan for if your oldT does try to contact you one way or another?
Please reach out and accept all the support you can.
Remember, your a special person, you can rise above this.
M
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