Posted by raisinb on June 9, 2008, at 9:34:33
In reply to T coaching me on defending myself, posted by Poet on June 8, 2008, at 11:42:35
Yikes, that sucks, Poet. I agree with everyone else; just practice, and remember that asking him for clarification is completely valid, and actually shows caring and commitment to your job. It doesn't have to be done in a defensive or angry manner (I am the worst culprit here :)); you can set the tone and make it a helpful conversation. I think most bosses love employees who will come to them and have helpful, non-confrontational discussions like this, rather than stewing or ignoring feedback, or misunderstanding things. You are doing him (and your company) a favor.
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