Posted by Lucie Lu on May 28, 2008, at 23:18:40
In reply to Re: impasse in therapy?, posted by muffled on May 28, 2008, at 23:00:15
Thank you for the welcome. Like many other posters, discussion of termination makes me anxious and uncomfortable - so much so, I don't know whether that's the current problem or not. We certainly have pretty much wrapped up the trauma side of things, not that it ever goes away but I think I can handle living with it now. But... all the other interpersonal, relationship stuff that has always been a problem for me is still a problem, and that stuff I don't know what to do with. So I think I still need therapy. Maybe what is involved in this sense of impasse is our needing to transition from a very dependent relationship to an equally committed and connected, but more "adult" relationship. I just really don't know how to raise this with him, not sure how to say it to him given all our history together.
poster:Lucie Lu
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