Posted by Dinah on May 9, 2008, at 22:50:55
In reply to Re: Fighting to relationship..... again » Dinah, posted by TherapyGirl on May 9, 2008, at 19:40:37
Well, I'll take a fair amount of the credit. But he deserves a lot too.
Actually, thinking back, I now worry about some of the stupid and insensitive things I said, and I have to keep in mind that the last ten minutes or so were quite warm and positive.
It's nice to remember his fine and useful qualities. Sometimes in day to day interactions, it's easier to see the flaws and weaknesses than the strengths. But he's got some vibrant strengths. Which is probably why he accomplished the very difficult task of gaining my trust and attachment.
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