Posted by Happyflower on May 8, 2008, at 21:28:40
In reply to Ha, it has occurred...muffled has dumped her T, posted by muffled on May 7, 2008, at 19:36:21
You know what? I see you moving on as huge step in your recovery process. She wasn't fulfilling your needs, and you were smart enough to see that, and to move on. I am proud of you. And it is okay to still care about her.
I remember your walks and how she blows her nose! :-) But it isn't a black and white issue. You probably can still contact her and just say hi if you want, she said it was okay but your probably have to make the first move.
You can still celebrate the good she did do, but also congratulate yourself because it also allowed you to take care of your needs, and that is huge!
Knowing your needs and taking steps in getting those needs met, is so amazing, huge progress.
((((Muffy)))) good luck in finding a new T.
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