Posted by muffled on May 3, 2008, at 11:44:33
In reply to Being Hurt, posted by Daisym on May 2, 2008, at 22:26:03
my bit, is that it can be REALLY hard to accept help from others. Dunno why.
I am learning to in some ways.
I tell myself that it helps THEM to feel good. That helping others feels good.
I don't worry that I owe them or nothing. I always say thanks, and what goes around comes around. And if we all help where we can, then its a good thing.
Which is not to say there are those who say 'can I help?' and DON'T really wanto help. But there are those who GENUINELY DO want to help.
Try and let them.
Its scarey, but not so bad.
I just keep saying it helps THEM too.
M
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