Posted by Happyflower on April 15, 2008, at 19:48:49
In reply to I LIED to my T...Very Bizarre Situation, posted by sassyfrancesca on April 15, 2008, at 13:30:30
Hi Sassy gurl,
I hate that this has caused you so much torment, your T should feel guilty, because he is.
You have told me a lot of what has gone on, and your T has crossed numerous boundaries, and what I hate about it is, that I feel like it will hurt you so badly in the end. I know it feels exciting, because you love him, but he is hurting you in unbelievable ways.
My T didn't cross boundaries the ways yours has, but the hurt I feel because of it, well I am not sure if I will ever be able to let it go. It hurts equal to the parental abuse I received as a kid.What sucks, is that he probably does have feelings for you, I am sure of it from what you have told me, but he is married and he will probably protect his life first, his job and his marriage before he will give it all up to be with you. Even if he wishes he could be with you, I have a feeling he will protect himself first.
I choose not to sue my T, because it won't help me any, and cost a fortune and time away from my life. You situation, there is NO doubt what he has done has crossed several boundaries with you, and he drags you along with his fantasies.
I really feel so sad for what he has done to you, your spirit. You deserve so much better as a T, and as a life companion.
I still love my old T, but I have lost all respect for him for what he did to me, and I feel I deserve much better than he can give me, as a T, or anything else for that matter.
I just hate it when clients get hurt because of T's. (((((((sassy))))))) Take care of yourself, doll.
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