Posted by Rigby on February 1, 2008, at 0:35:32
In reply to Re: I Called » Rigby, posted by Daisym on January 31, 2008, at 23:38:25
Hi All,
Thanks again for all of your thoughts.
She called and, well, it went pretty badly.
She had no great insights. And I was, as it turns out, pretty angry for her doing this. On Tuesday I felt good, settled and done. I was going to write a nice thank you note and be done.
I took notes on the call. And I'm dumbfounded. She had nothing to say beyond the obvious.
So I'm not sure why she called. But I'm not happy about it. I feel that my boundaries were, once again, because she's messed up before with me more than once, violated.
Her main point was that people don't let me leave because they push their needs over mine. She said it was hard for her to call because she realized I could conclude the same thing about her.
I think she was upset because there was a chance I might have come back had she really had something compelling to say when I saw her earlier in the week. But this really backfired.
Anyway, I'm left feeling pretty lousy and unresolved. And really mad at her for doihg this.
I'll take *any* suggestions and advise you guys might have. I need it.
Thanks again.
poster:Rigby
thread:809717
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