Posted by rskontos on January 17, 2008, at 9:08:44
In reply to Re: I'm busted! » MissK, posted by antigua3 on January 17, 2008, at 7:52:00
Hey guys, I know that this thread hurt some of you, and I left after my initial post and only finished reading this thread today. But I must admit I found this whole thread very helpful. And most of you know I can be triggered very easily. So many of you had great words of wisdom and too many to be named individually. I would like to thank Miss K for opening this up. I have just begin my hard struggle to get all my parts under control and my therapist is talking about transference to help me. I now understand this better as a result of this thread. I also through this thread have some insight into other's struggles, triumphs and ways to help and hinder this painful but necessary walk to make myself better. One thing that I do really identify with strongly was Seldomseen's comment "But, for me at least, I learned that I could absorb hurt and frustation and disappointment and not be devastated by it or end the relationship". That struck a cord in my being and my soul. I have always ran from being hurt. And my T/p-doc says that this is the biggest thing for me to not do right now. So I thank you Seldom, I needed that. And I thank each of you for sharing all, including the discord because in this a compromise and a sense of self was gained. The tone changed a bit but I did notice as a bystander that it was resolved even before Dr. Bob intervened. It did help me and some was hard to hear but I pushed through and was helped. Thanks all........rsk
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