Posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 20:01:54
In reply to Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + rant* » MissK, posted by star008 on January 13, 2008, at 15:56:25
> I wish I didn't cuz someday it will hurt alot but i think after a long time of being with someone it will hurt regardless of what you try to do..
Yes, star. I agree. I am sure when it comes time to terminate with my T there will be some sadness that may hurt for a time. I will probably even miss our sessions and her personally to a degree. But going back to my school teacher image, the point for me really is to move on at some point. I think that is my T's objective in treating me too or at leasts understands that is my objective.
>I have read some of the agonizing posts and it does seem IMHO to be unrealistic sometimes but that is just how people feel and it happens in therapy
It is just how some people feel, I know that. I just wish and don't completely understand how a relationship that is supposed to make them feel better regularly makes them feel bad.
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