Posted by muffled on January 9, 2008, at 11:35:21
In reply to Re: i want..., posted by B2chica on January 9, 2008, at 9:26:39
B2.
OMG you are so on the ball. You are attuned to your kid. You notice stuff that lotsa parents wouldn't.
You go to T. You are aware of whats going on inside.
Your hubby is in the loop and helping.
You are taking your meds.
ALL parents fall short of perfection.
But you know what?
I think you are going to be a darn good parent.
I am not great parent, but at least my kids KNOW they are loved. And I am trying my best to do better. Just like you.
We are AWARE.
We are good Moms. NOT monsters.
We got hurt. Its hurts still.
But we are NOT monsters.
And thats why we go to T. Cuz on some level we KNOW these bad things we say to ourselves are LIES. Our poor inner kids are lost and confused and hurting. They are doing the best they can but they are just little kids.
So we go to T. We try and help those kids.
B2, you are so kind and caring and sensitive.
I truly belive you will be proly actually a better than average Mom.
There's so many Moms out there, they love their kids, but they so busy, they not LISTEN and really SEE their kids. YOU DO. I DO. Cuz of whats happened to us.
So its gonna be OK B2 really it is.
Triggers suck big time but they DO PASS. Hard to beleive at the time, burt try and remember. You've been badly triggered B4, and IT DID PASS. They DO pass. Grit your teeth, be kind to your inner kids, you KNOW that NO part of you has the right to hurt your body. And truly, it proly doesn't really want to. Its just upset and doesn't know what else to do.
You ARE strong B2.
Hang in there.
((( B2 )))
M
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