Posted by Eltoro on December 18, 2007, at 21:38:19
In reply to Sounds of silence, posted by Maxime on December 18, 2007, at 19:37:26
She used to simply ask me what was on my mind when i stayed silent for a while, and if i seemed hesitant, if I was just thinking, she would stay quiet, patiently.
Its very easy for them to know what kind of feelings are behind the silence, if its shyness, they will be patient and wont pressure you, if you seem to have something on the tip of your tongue wanting to come out, they may venture asking. If you are silent in anger, or in pain, they may act differently, but most of the times they will be patiently quiet.
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