Posted by rskontos on December 18, 2007, at 18:56:45
In reply to Re: Bad therapy ending, posted by raisinb on December 18, 2007, at 18:05:00
Eltoro, There are books dedicated to the subject of transference and how to handle it. I think she crossed the line and then turned around and blamed it on your shoulders. What you described does not sound right. It sounds very wrong. And I am negative all the time to my T. we work on being negative. My T told me to tell her when I want a hug as she knows I would flip if she tried to hug me. I argue with her and I have emailed her to dump her. I have yelled not at her but parts of me but yelled at someone in her office. I have told her I didn't agree with her. That is negative isn't it. She just tells me how else I can look at the situation. If a person with mental issues can't be negative then all therapists would be out of work really quick I think. because to me being depressed is negative. So what was she thinking. And how long has she been a T. I think her feelings were more involved than she cared and she reacted emotional not therapist like.
JMHO....rk
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