Posted by JoniS on November 5, 2007, at 11:19:40
In reply to Dunno what to do*triggery?*, posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 8:06:46
Muff,
I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but look what a growth opportunity!
Looks to me like you need to determine whether you need to say something along the lines of...:
"I have a weird and not so nice email written, and I not sure who it come from, and its not so nice. I dunno if its true stuff, or if its just some angry part trying to hurt T.
So I haven't sent it. I thot maybe I could bring it with me, to sorta 'test the waters' B4 I gave it to her. But traditionally I usu chicken out...
And I dunno even understand the mail. Or if its just anger. I want to be all better, and I do WAY better, but I can't seem to exorcise this one demon in me. And I dunno what it is. I dunno if I can ever know. But theres a part in me that is SO messed up, she so horrible we won't let her out, and when she sneaks out a bit its too awful how she feels and we want to die. Literally die. So she has to stay away. She has no words. Just how she feels.
I dunno what to do.
I just don't."Then see what she thinks of that. Then if you both still believe it will be beneficial, show her the email.
Take this response with a grain of salt, cause I am FARRR from knowledgeable in this area.
Good Luck whatever you do. I hope you get a satisfying outcome.
Take good care of yourself.
Joni
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